Scald the milk to kill off the enzyme that affects how the yeast works. Place the milk in a pan over a moderate heat. Take the pan off the heat when you see bubbles appear on the edge of the pan. Add the cubed butter, give a gentle stir and leave the butter to melt in the milk. Leave to cool.
In a large mixing bowl, add the flour, yeast, sugar, salt and spices along with the mixed dried fruit and give everything a good mix.
Make a well in the centre, add the lightly beaten eggs and enough milk & butter mixture to make a soft slightly sticky dough. Note: I used all of the mixture.
Knead until you have a soft smooth dough. This could take 5 - 10 mins depending on whether you are kneading by hand or by machine. The mixture will be a little sticky, but persevere and it will all come together. TIP: If using an electric mixer remove the dough from the bowl and knead by hand for the final few minutes to bring it together as a smooth round ball of dough.
Place in a lightly floured bowl and cover with a pan lid or cling film and leave to rise in a warm place until the dough has doubled in size. This could take a couple of hours depending on how warm your kitchen is.
Grease and line two baking trays with baking parchment.
Turn the dough out onto a lightly dusted surface and knead for a few seconds by hand. Divide the dough into 12 equal portions and shape them into small round buns. Using a sharp knife, make a cross on the top of each Hot Cross Bun. Place each bun on the prepared baking tray, cover with cling film and leave to rise and double in size in a warm place.
While the hot cross buns are rising for the second time on the baking trays, mix the flour with enough water to make a smooth thick paste. This is used to make the crosses on the top of each bun. Place the paste in a piping bag and cut the end to a ¼ inch opening. Leave to one side until you are ready to use.
Before you are ready to bake, preheat the oven to 190 deg fan oven.
Brush the tops with a little milk then pipe a cross over the top of each bun with the flour paste that you made earlier.
Bake in the oven for 15 - 20 minutes or until baked with a golden colour on top. Glaze with melted or soften apricot jam or marmalade and leave to cool.